Dream Guy

What do we girls expect from men? Sometimes, they say that we are too demanding and we want too much of the impossible but is it really so?

Well, this time I would like to share just some things that some girls want. It may not be something that all girls want but they sure are the things that majority wants.

First, we have to see who these men are and what roles they play in our lives. Say for example, this man is our boyfriend or husband. Of course, we want their eternal unconditional love, understanding and loyalty.

For most of us women, we want our men to love us, to be there for us when we need them, to be our protector when we are in danger and to be our companion when we are lonely.

It doesn't take a thousand roses to make our day. Not diamond rings to make us smile. All it takes is just these: Simple caring words to make us soar and simple hugs to last us throughout the day.

I really don't understand why some men find it so hard to do something as simple as those.

We can spend half the day just being there with the person we love without doing anything specific. We just want to be able to be together with our man.

Of course, these men must also be able to provide for the family and not the kind that throws money needlessly.

For men who we call our dads or father, we want them to care for us and not just be stern because they have to. Being stern and loving at the same time is very important. Stern so that we can learn to be decent human beings as we grow and loving so that we know the value of family.

However, for men who say they want to be our friends, please be sincere and make sure you act as our friends!

Some men, we can't deny, say that they want to be our "friends" because they hope that they can get something from us.

Yes, some women are that cheap and are easily tempted but please respect us when you say you want to be our friends and make sure you act like real friends around us.

If we are in danger, we hope that our guy friends would be there for us and help us like a knight in shining armour protecting us damsels in distress.

On the other hand, for men who are our superiors, we want them to be responsible and sensible as well as wise.

Some, men and women alike are really *!&?. They think they are always right and they want to always be right even when they are not. I mean, get real, nobody is purrfect!

So when we make mistakes or something isn't right, let us know and let us explain. Please don't leave us gasping cause it's just unfair.

Whatever it is, we make sure our job is completed the way you want it, right? So be reasonable, think and reason wisely and do not let your "I'm the boss" attitude gets the better of you.

For women who are independent and think that they don't need men to make their lives complete, good. Enjoy your present lives but trust me, if you find a great man who fulfills your criteria of what a man should have, I'm sure you'd be so much happier.

Remember, women are human beings too and it is a woman who brought you into this world so have some respect, give a little love, have an ounce of patience and pamper us with care and understanding.

Things may have changed a lot and people's philosophy might have altered with time and situation but still, we can't deny that the best things in life can actually be as simple as this.